save the date, and then commit to it!
what’s more frustrating to a bride/groom/event host/planner than someone who waits until the last minute to rsvp? answer: absolutely nothing! if only every invitation came with this article.
thanks rand cooper of the new york times for writing this, and thank you to all future event guests for reading it and then developing the new habit of rsvp’ing weeks and weeks in advance, thus allowing sufficient time for dietary requests, seating charts, sanity, etc. or, um, not…
well hey, one can dream, right?